Most of the time, if my husband and I are alone, the kids are in the other room, crying for something. Or the telephone is ringing.  Plus, women know that after so long in a relationship, they tend to lose the desire and just don’t have the need for it. Check out my blog at http://buzz.prevention.com/community/lola-writer/keeping-a-sex-driving-in-motion to see my tips for keeping it going.